Frequently Asked Questions

What sets you apart from other drum instructors?
As you can probably tell from the pages of this website, I absolutely LOVE drumming.  When I’m not playing drums, I am generally thinking about drums, talking about drums, reading about drums, writing about drums, or listening to drums!  But the thing that sets me apart from most other instructors is my vast experience at teaching drums.

While it’s very common for a drummer to teach some lessons here and there “on the side,” it is very UNcommon for a drummer to teach as many lessons as I have taught.  I knew from a young age that I wanted drum education to be a significant part of my musical career. Therefore, I began giving lessons—LOTS of lessons—from the moment that I first felt qualified to do so.  That was back in 1996, and teaching drum lessons has actually been my full-time job for nearly all of the years since.  So you can just imagine how many thousands and thousands of lessons I have ended up teaching so far!

This enormous number of lessons has enabled me to attain a level of teaching expertise that simply cannot be attained in any other way.  It has also given me the rare opportunity to gradually develop and refine an outstanding curriculum.  In fact, some of my personal teaching concepts have gained widespread recognition throughout the drumming world on account of my instructional DVD and my educational articles in Modern Drummer magazine.

But don’t all drum instructors cover the same stuff?
Believe it or not…NO. At only about 100 years old, the modern drumset is actually one of the world’s youngest musical instruments. Because of this, the drumming community has not yet arrived at an established methodology that is accepted by the majority of instructors. Even basic concepts such as how exactly to hold a drumstick are frequent topics of debate amongst educators.

So what’s a student to believe, and who is a student to trust regarding the best ways to learn and practice drumming? From my perspective, the only solution is to find a teacher who has spent an enormous amount of time researching and studying drumming, preferably from numerous different sources and instructors. Only a teacher like that will be familiar with most of the differing viewpoints out there so that they can pick and choose the best ones to pass along to their students.

In my quest to be this type of teacher, I have collected a library of countless drumming books and videos, and I have personally taken lessons with 19 different drum instructors. About half of these instructors were people I met with once or twice so that I could get specific information. The other half were long-term mentors of mine, and include such people as the late Jim Chapin, one of the all-time legends of drumming education. In addition, I have spent many thousands of hours as an instructor myself, seeing firsthand what works and what doesn’t. From all of this, I have arrived at an unusually effective and comprehensive curriculum that is uniquely my own.

What is your teaching approach?
Of course, my exact teaching approach will vary somewhat from one student to the next. I probably wouldn’t interact the same way with a teenager as I would with a middle-aged business owner. I also probably wouldn’t teach a weekend hobbyist in precisely the same way that I would teach an aspiring professional drummer getting ready for a major audition. Part of my job is to be sensitive to the differences in the goals and personalities of the people I work with.

However, this is not to say that the actual content of my teaching will change from student to student…only that my pace and style of presentation might vary a bit. I believe that the fundamental skills of drumming are applicable to all students equally, and I try to help all of my students gain mastery over those skills. In doing so, I find it helpful to remember that there are 3 main aspects involved in learning to play the drums well – the physical aspect, the mental aspect, and the emotional aspect. The physical aspect includes such things as coordination exercises and stick technique. The mental aspect includes such things as counting rhythms and reading sheet music. The emotional aspect includes such things as learning the meaning behind a song and playing with the proper intensity level to produce a sincere performance.

While working with these 3 different aspects of drumming, I always strive to foster a fun and relaxed teaching environment. My studio is a place where my students and I can share our interest in music and have an enjoyable time developing our love for drumming together. Because of this, many of my students over the years have ended up becoming good friends of mine.

Were you ever in a band?
Yes! Over the years, I have played in numerous bands of various types. I started when I was a teenager, playing with rock bands in the clubs of the Connecticut rock scene. Once I moved to New York, I began drumming professionally in musical theatre “pit bands” as well as jazz bands. This allowed me to work with some extremely high-caliber artists, including many musical theatre stars and a handful of world-renowned jazz musicians. I also played on a Caribbean tour with a singing group and gigged around New York City with a terrific rock band called Whirl. I actually ended up performing on Manhattan Cable Television with Whirl when a program called “The Rhythms Of New York” did a half hour feature about us.

From 1999 to 2000, I even got a taste of the “big time” by touring the country with a major musical theatre show. This was not a small act living together in a van. We stayed in hotels and traveled with 2 full-sized tour buses plus an 18-wheeled truck for the props and scenery!

As an educator, I feel that these past performing experiences are a crucial part of my effectiveness. I could not teach my students how to play with other musicians if I had not done a good amount of it myself. I also could not teach them about the practical realities of doing drum gigs if I had not personally lived those realities. For these reasons, I am very grateful for my diverse performing background. However, during most of my music career, I have felt drawn to focus primarily on my educational efforts. In fact, when new performance opportunities arise, I often find myself recommending my advanced students for the job. This is good news because it means that I will not be frequently canceling your lessons to accommodate band rehearsals and shows. As a student of mine, you will always know that your lessons are a high priority.

Did you ever teach anybody famous?
Several years ago, a student of mine told me that she had seen and heard a great new indie rock band that was guest starring on The Late Show With David Letterman. She wanted to play a song by this band, and she wondered if together we could figure out the drummer’s drum part. When she finally told me the name of the band, I laughed and said “Well…if we can’t figure out the drummer’s playing on our own, I could always touch base with him and ask him to explain it to us personally. He recently took some lessons with me so that I could help him prepare for his band’s upcoming tour.” I love that story! It’s the kind of thing that truly could only happen to a drum teacher in New York City!

But that wasn’t actually my most famous student. My most famous student is a major drum icon who has been a strong presence in the music world for a few decades already. In fact, at one point, he was nominated by Modern Drummer magazine as the number one rock drummer of the year. In 2005, he saw an article of mine about bass drum technique, and he contacted me to see if I would help him to reinvent his bass drum approach. We did 2 lessons together and covered a lot of material for him to continue working on by himself. He took notes and was more attentive than almost anyone else I’ve ever taught. With that kind of humble dedication to drumming, it is no wonder that he has been so successful.

In addition to these 2 gentlemen, I have also taught a Latin Grammy Award nominee, the daughter of a world-renowned symphonic conductor, a hip-hopper who has drummed for one of the old school rap legends, and a female drummer whose band is starting to make waves on the Brooklyn rock scene. There have also been a couple of high-profile models, a stage actress, and a well-known television host.

People often ask about famous students, and of course, it is great fun for me to recount these stories. It is also very flattering that these celebrities would choose me to be their drumming instructor. But in reality, this type of situation is rare, and these types of students are not the ones that I spend the majority of my time working with. The bulk of my students are school teachers, accountants, artists, lawyers, publicists, architects, doctors, managers, personal trainers, authors, jewelry designers, engineers…and anything else you can possibly think of. My aim is to make drumming accessible and rewarding for anyone who has an interest in learning the instrument.

Do you work with students on playing actual songs?
Definitely! I know of many drum instructors who only teach exercises because they feel that it’s redundant to work on actual songs with their students. I completely disagree with this theory. While it would certainly be nice if students could automatically make the leap from doing exercises to playing songs, in reality this is rarely the case. I have seen countless students excel at drumming exercises while still being completely lost when it came to applying these skills within a song.

In my teaching studio, I directly address this issue. First of all, I have my students play most of our exercises along with songs so that they learn to synchronize their drumming with the other elements of music. Secondly, I host a drum recital every 6 months where the students all get together and drum for each other, as well as for their families and friends. Each student prepares at least one complete song that they perform along with a recording, or in some cases, with a full band. Participation in the recitals is entirely optional. However, the students who do participate unanimously agree that these events are among the best things we do all year. They push each student to be a more complete musician, and they build a sense of community by giving all of the students a chance to meet one another.

Drummers don’t actually read music, do they?
Actually, they do! Drum sheet music is very similar to sheet music for other instruments, and learning to read it can be an important part of learning to play the drums. When we see a rhythm written out in notation, it’s kind of like we’re looking at a precise diagram of the rhythm. We are shown exactly how the limbs interact with each other, and at exactly which moments in time. In my experience, this visual aid can help a student to learn things which might be impossible for them to learn otherwise. If a student is really struggling to understand a new rhythm, I will often grab a piece of paper and write it down so the student can see exactly what they’re supposed to do. This almost always solves the problem!

My approach for teaching people to read music is similar to the standard way of teaching people to read language. First of all, by the time a person starts learning to read language, they can already talk to some degree. I follow this same principle. I teach my students to play some basic drum rhythms for a handful of months before I introduce reading. This tends to make the reading go much more quickly when we do eventually start working on it. Secondly, I actually teach people to write music from their very first day of learning to read. When I was a kid, I remember being taught to write letters when first learning to read English. By following a similar approach with reading music, my students learn rhythm notation with unusual thoroughness while having fun in the process.

What kind of music do you like?
My personal musical tastes have gone through many different phases throughout my life. When I was a young kid, I loved pop music, and I listened to Top 40 radio all the time. When I was around 10 years old, rap music burst onto the scene, and that became my new favorite music (yes, I’m old enough to remember the beginning of rap music). After rap music, I got into classic rock and started drumming along to bands like Pink Floyd, Black Sabbath, and Led Zeppelin. During college, I learned about jazz and gained an appreciation for this as the music where drumset players first found their voice. This evolved into an interest in “fusion” music, which combines elements of rock and jazz along with rhythms from places such as Cuba and Brazil.

Somewhere in me, there is still a love for all of these music styles that have touched my life at one point or another. And of course, the list keeps growing. These days, I actually tend to find out about modern music from my very own students. They bring in songs to work on for the recitals, and this keeps me abreast of the latest developments in music. I always find something in each of these songs that I can relate to as I help the student prepare for their performance. And occasionally…a recital song will even become a personal favorite of mine that ends up in heavy rotation on my ipod.

Can you teach me to play punk? Or reggae? Or deathmetal? Or…???
Certainly! Whatever music style you like, there’s a good chance that I’ve already taught someone how to play it at one point or another. In fact, since we do a student recital every 6 months featuring a broad range of music, there’s a strong possibility that I’ve just recently taught someone to play a song in your preferred style. For people just beginning to play the drums, these various types of music tend to sound extremely different from each other. However, once a person has developed an inside knowledge of drumming, it becomes clear that almost all styles of music are based on the same fundamental elements of rhythm. As a highly-trained drummer, I find that I can dissect and play or teach almost any musical genre. One of my current students has been working with me since 2004. He is now at the point where he too can understand and play just about any kind of music. My long-term goal as your teacher will be to ultimately teach you to do the same.
Is it possible to take lessons with you even if I don't live in New York?
Yes!  Thanks to modern technology, you can study drums with me from anywhere in the world!  You don’t need to choose from a limited selection of teachers in your hometown.  I will happily teach you drumming in the same manner that I have taught hundreds of students throughout my years as a leading drum teacher in New York City.  For a full explanation of how this works, please click the link here to visit my Online Drum Lessons page.
Who’s the best drummer ever?
John Bonham…and Steve Gadd…and Gene Krupa…and Billy Cobham…and Max Roach…and the list goes on and on! I’m glad you asked this question, though, because it means you’re interested in the history of drumming. Not only is learning the history of drumming fun and interesting, but it’s also an important and helpful part of learning this instrument. While teaching, I frequently find myself mentioning the names listed above…as well as countless others. My students get to hear little anecdotes about the origins of different drumming techniques. For those students who take a particularly strong interest in the history of drums, I have also compiled lists of the all-time greatest drummers along with some of their biggest achievements and most recognized songs. I have even been known to send out emails alerting my students that a particular drumming legend is playing live in town. On more than one occasion, I have personally gone with a few students to these events like a mini field trip! My goal with all of this is that my students end up developing a love and appreciation for our drumming forefathers.
How long before I’m really good?
Of course, this will largely depend on how much time and effort you choose to focus toward drumming. There’s really no correct path in that regard. It just comes down to what exactly you want to achieve and within what time frame. Since most of my students work full-time, their main interest in drumming is as a hobby. They generally attend lessons once per week, and they relax at home by practicing a bit when time allows. These students usually find that they are capable of playing a complete song within a handful of months. In fact, we prove this at every recital by featuring at least one or 2 performers who’ve only recently begun taking lessons. Not bad considering that it could take months or years just to play one decent sounding note on a violin or trumpet!

Of course, if you happen to be very serious about your drumming, then you can certainly decide to progress even faster than I described above. I currently have a student who has chosen to make her drumming lessons the primary thrust of her life. She has been meeting with me twice per week and practicing my assignments about 5 hours per day, Monday-Friday. During her first year of lessons with me, she went from being a complete beginner to being one of the most advanced students I’ve ever taught. She is certainly the fastest progressing student of my career. Right now, we are working on her repertoire of songs so that she can start a professional band. Of course, this is an extremely rare student with an extremely rare vision for herself. It’s not an approach that would make sense for most people, but it is a valuable indicator of what is possible.

What if I discover that I’m not talented at drumming?
I guess the “politically correct” response to this question is “Talent has nothing to do with drumming. It all depends on how hard you work.” I’m going to avoid being “politically correct,” and I’m even going to avoid the word “talent” since that can be a difficult thing to precisely define. Instead, I will simply tell you what I have observed from teaching hundreds of people to drum.

There seems to be a tiny percentage of people who pick up drumming skills and concepts unusually fast. I would say that about 1% of my students have fallen into this category. On the other end of the spectrum, about another 1% of my students have had an unusually difficult time trying to learn even the basics of drumming. So…that leaves the remaining 98% of the people I’ve worked with, who seem predisposed to learn drumming at a predictable and satisfying pace. These people greatly control their learning speed by how regularly they attend lessons and how much they practice outside of lessons.

With all of this in mind, my advice is to simply try out drumming if it interests you. If, by chance, you are part of the 1% who find drumming to be a constant struggle, then you can decide whether to work through it or stop and find a different hobby. Nobody will force you to continue with something that you find frustrating or unenjoyable, so you really have nothing to lose. Of course, in all likelihood, you will be part of the 98% of drum students who progress nicely and love their drumming hobby. Heck, you might even be lucky and find that you’re part of the 1% who learn drums more quickly than the norm. In that case, however, keep in mind that you will still need to give your all if you want to maximize your personal drumming potential!

Do you think I’m too old to learn drumming?
Absolutely not! So far, I have never encountered a student who was too old to learn drumming. There is an idea floating around that young children learn musical instruments more quickly than teens and adults. I think this idea got started because young children do tend to learn languages more quickly than teens and adults. Studies have definitively shown this. Therefore, I think people assume that the same must be true for musical instruments as well.

I personally can only speak about drums because I have never taught any other instruments, so I will just say this: In my experience, teens and adults generally learn drumming at a much faster rate than young children. Yes, you did read that last sentence correctly. I know that this might seem like an incredible statement if you have spent your life believing the opposite. Regardless, this is what I’ve observed throughout my many years as a teacher. Young children simply do not possess the same level of mental focus or motor control as teens and adults…and these factors make a big difference when learning to play drums.

Years ago, when I was teaching students from every age group, the teens and adults progressed so quickly compared to the young children that I eventually decided to implement a minimum age requirement of 12 years old. I am happy to see anyone enjoy the process of drumming, but it is definitely an added pleasure to see people make significant progress as well.  My minimum age requirement policy has allowed my career to be as rewarding as possible in recent years.  During this time, my students have ranged from age 12 up to mid 60′s.

Is it OK if I never played drums at all before?
Absolutely! In fact, most of my students never played drums at all before starting lessons with me. It kinda makes sense if you think about it. Usually, when a person seeks out instruction in something, it is because they don’t already feel confident, knowledgeable, and skilled in that area. Yes, sometimes experienced and advanced drummers will take lessons to further their abilities. However, in my experience, that is much less common than a complete novice taking lessons as a way to first get started.
What if I’ve already played drums for a long time? Will you make me start over from the beginning?
Have no fear – it’s impossible for you to “start over from the beginning”…even if you want to! Your past musical experiences are a part of your background whether you like or not. What we will aim to do in our lessons together is move you forward and make you the most complete drummer you can be. From my years of studying and teaching drums, I have arrived at a comprehensive curriculum of rhythms, techniques, and concepts that enable a person to reach their highest drumming potential. As someone with a prior history of playing the drums, you will inevitably find that you are already strong with certain aspects of this curriculum. Great! We will not waste time rehashing those elements that are already solid in your drumming.

Instead, we will see where your weaknesses are, and we will work to strengthen those areas.  Be prepared, however…more than one advanced student has unexpectedly discovered during their lessons that they were weak in areas where they had believed themselves to be solid.  This can be a humbling experience, and it takes a person of strong character to forge on with the process when something like that occurs.  For this reason, I believe that people with prior drumming experience sometimes have a more difficult time taking lessons than complete beginners.  If all of this sounds terrifying to you, then perhaps drumming lessons would not really be appropriate for you right now.  On the other hand, if you can go into lessons with a receptive mind, a sense of fun, and some excitement about finally moving forward with your musical abilities, then we will have a blast together, and your drumming will absolutely improve.

How do you coordinate the feet with the hands? I know that I’m gonna have trouble with that part.
You might be surprised -  that element of drumming is actually much easier than most people think.  It’s a complete misconception that drummers do all sorts of conflicting things with each limb independently.  In reality, a drummer’s limbs don’t act independently, but rather they work together playing different parts of the same rhythm.  In fact, the limbs frequently play in simple unison with each other.  This is not to say that you will never encounter anything challenging while learning to play the drums.  That would be pretty boring, don’t you think?  There are definitely going to be occasional challenges, but learning to “coordinate the feet with the hands” will probably not be one of them.  And for the things that will be challenging…keep in mind that nobody will expect you to tackle this stuff on your own.  That’s why you’ll have me standing there as your teacher!
If I sign up for lessons, will I be your only female student?
No chance!  It’s funny how often I get asked this question, considering that so many of my students are female.  In fact, there have been numerous periods in my teaching career when the female students have outnumbered the male students.  I think this occurs because I happen to specialize in teaching adults, and it seems that adult drum students are more often women than men.

From years of observing this phenomenon, I believe that I have arrived at a possible explanation.  When males are interested in drumming, they often receive the support of their parents, and so they tend to start lessons as young children.  By the time these boys reach adulthood, they have either forgotten about drumming or have already become skilled enough at it that they won’t generally seek out further instruction.  Meanwhile, countless women have told me that they were interested in drumming during their youth but were discouraged from pursuing it.  Instead, their parents pressured them to play the violin, the piano, or some other instrument.  These girls never lose their desire to play the drums, and many of them do eventually begin drum lessons…as adults!

What do I need to purchase for the lessons?
For the first lesson, it’s enough to just bring yourself and perhaps a notebook to write things down.  My studio is completely decked out with all of the drums, cymbals, and sticks that we will possibly need.  At some point during your first few weeks of lessons, it will be helpful for you to get your own pair of sticks as well as a drum “practice pad.”  I’ll let you know exactly which models to buy.  These items are both very inexpensive, and the 2 of them can be ordered online for a combined total of about $50.  That is all you’ll need to buy for a number of months.  After that, I may eventually ask you to purchase a drumming book or 2 for us to use in your studies.  These only cost about $10 each, and you will have them for the rest of your life.  So, you really won’t be purchasing much at all with this hobby.
Will I need to buy a drumset?
No, it is entirely possible to take drumming lessons without owning a drumset.  In fact, in New York City, having a drumset is usually not even a feasible option.  You would get yourself evicted from your apartment after your very first practice session!  Fortunately, the basics of drumming can easily be practiced on a rubber drum pad or even just by hitting drumsticks against a pillow or mattress.  For many of my students, this is how they practice at home, and their lessons are where they apply their new skills to actual drums.  It generally works out quite well.

Of course, if you do want to play on actual drums in between lessons, there is a way to make that happen as well.  There are rehearsal studios throughout New York that are fully equipped with drums for people to practice on.  I can give you the names and locations of some of these studios, and you can talk to them about booking some practice time.  The rates for a studio like this range between $7 per hour and $25 per hour depending on the time of day and the size of the room.

If you take lessons for a while, and you find that you really love drumming and want to stick with it, you might also consider buying an electronic drumset.  Modern electronic drums are very realistic in both sound and feel.  You could put a set of these right in your apartment, plug in some headphones, and drum away to your heart’s content.  Inside the headphones, you’ll sound like a rockstar, while the only thing audible outside the headphones will be the quiet taps of your sticks against the rubber electronic pads.

Can you teach my 3 year old to play drums? I want to get him started early.
For a number of years now, I have had a policy that a student must be at least age 12 to study drums with me.  This is not to say that your young child is incapable of learning drums.  They may do very well taking drum lessons with an appropriate teacher.  It’s just that I personally am not an appropriate teacher for extremely young children.  During my first several years of teaching, I accepted students of every conceivable age, and I consistently made far better progress with the teens and adults.  Plus, I enjoyed working with them more.  I am sure that you can find a suitable teacher for your young child by doing some Google searches.  There are plenty of instructors who happily accept students of any age.
Do you offer gift certificates?
Yes!  In fact, I sell a number of gift certificates every year, especially around the winter holidays.  If you’d like to purchase one, simply send me an email through the “Get Started” page of this website.  Let me know how many lessons you want to purchase, and I will send you a PayPal invoice that you can pay instantly with a credit card.  After your payment is confirmed, I will email you a printable gift certificate that you can write a message on and present to someone.  When they receive the gift, all they have to do is send me an email, and we will arrange the exact dates and times of the lessons.  I’ve done this for years, and it works very smoothly.

One word of caution, however – if the person you have in mind for this gift already plays the drums, I recommend that you carefully gauge whether or not they will appreciate the gesture.  You don’t want them to interpret your offering to mean “You don’t play the drums very well, so go get yourself some lessons!”  Of course, this would never be your intended message, but you might be surprised how sensitive some people are when it comes to their musical abilities.  On the other hand, if the person you have in mind does not play drums yet, but has always dreamed of trying it out, then your gift will almost certainly be a major hit.  Many of my long-term students over the years started out by receiving a surprise gift certificate for some lessons with me!

Should I prepare for my first lesson by practicing some stuff I learned on YouTube?
I would highly recommend that you avoid doing that.  The internet is a terrific resource, and with millions of videos posted, YouTube certainly has some useful drum information to offer.  The problem is, it’s almost impossible to sort through it all and to know what is trustworthy and what isn’t…especially if you don’t know much about drumming yet.

If you’ve already decided to take lessons with me, then you are about to be personally coached by a teacher with many thousands of hours of teaching experience.  At this point, what benefit could possibly come from taking the advice of a total stranger on YouTube?  If they happen to steer you down the wrong path, we may need to spend our first few lessons undoing the damage and getting you back to square one.  It’s not worth the risk!  A better idea is to be patient and simply wait until you start your lessons with me.  Once we get going, I would be happy to help you find some YouTube videos that will safely reinforce our work together.

I definitely want to sign up for lessons. What should I do next?
Finally, an answer that is really quick and easy for me to write!  Make sure that you have looked at the Lesson Details page and understood all of the information there. After that, go to the Get Started page, and send me an email so that we can arrange your first lesson!